Do you remember in elementary school the saying girls rule, boys drool? Well, everything changes in middle school. The saying becomes boys rule, girls drool. But the problem is when u think they are there for you, or that you have to have them, you end up giving all your attention, power, and love to them. When you give your power away, you have given up your freedom. My friend Michelle is about 50 and has never been married, yet she is the happiest person i know. People say shes to normal to not be married, when really shes perfect. You don't need that guy to make you happy. Us girls just want to hear that were pretty, we want to feel loved, we want that attention. But when you give them that power, you change yourself for them, you give your heart to them, you devote your life to them. We think, I'll just give them a little of my heart, but in reality, are you ever going to get that part of your heart back? If you give a piece of pie away to your friends are you going to get it back?
God tells us to devote our life to him, and him only. Here's a analogy for ya; you just got out of a marathon and your DYING of thirst. I have two choices for you, a cold chocolate milkshake, or a cold bottle of water. Which one would you choose? Most of you would choose water right? Because the milkshake isn't going to quench your thirst, but make you more thirsty and with a tummy ache after. The water will quench your thirst and make you ready for another race. Boys are like milkshakes, they might taste better then water, but later on they just bring heart ache and troubles. God is like the water bottle. He quenches your thirst and helps you in your life. God has a special person for you, and the longer you wait on that special person, the better they are going to be when you meet them. A guy once said, " I am romancing the girl God has planned for me even before i meet her."
